Are you ready to make significant changes in your life?
Are you ready to start getting new results?
Transformational Coaching is all about making significant, impact full and lasting changes within your life.
For some, this is about changing something simple like an isolated habit, behaviour or response. Whilst for others is is about radical personal transformation – changing an entire way of being in the world. And yet for others still it is more about achieving a specific outcome in life or realising a personal dream.
If you have a personal change or life change project that you are serious about realising, I can help you… but before you contact me, please be clear with yourself that you are serious and that it is something that you really want. I say this because in undertaking to work with me you will be required to invest a lot more than just my fee – you will be investing your time, your energy, your focus, your engagement and your commitment.
Transformational Coaching is about exploring, focusing, repatterning, re-meaning, connecting to and re-engineering motivation and much more. It is also very clearly about taking action and attaining meaningful results.
An Important Point
Without a doubt, good Coaching and Changework can at times seem almost magical, but to be absolutely clear here:
Do NOT come to me if you are expecting magic powers!
Because I don’t have any. I have knowledge, understanding, experience and applicable skills. I can show you things, teach you things, facilitate clarity, connect you to new levels of awareness and motivation, and help you to change your experiences. And if you are dedicated and actively engage with the process, your life will transform. No magic powers, just powerful process.
How It Works
Each Coaching/Change programme is uniquely tailored to individual needs. When we work together, it is dedicated, switched on work. This means that whilst we will have formal ‘session-time’ (either face-to-face or via Skype), we will also be in continual correspondence via email, text and/or phone. Essentially, throughout the duration of the project you will ALWAYS be engaged (at some level – sometimes consciously, sometimes otherwise), and so will I. This is what I mean by ‘dedicated’ and ‘switched on’.
If this sounds high intensity, then it is. Of course, this doesn’t mean that it will take over your life and leave you no room for other work, rest and play, but it does mean the work is ongoing and will be integrated into your life. With that said, it is also true that different people work best with different levels of intensity, and this is 100% recognised and respected in our co-creation of the programme… though coasting is absolutely NOT an option.
Another thing that is important to recognise that in undertaking and realising your project you will be necessarily stepping outside of your comfort zone. All life change consists in thinking and doing things differently, and you need to be open to this if you want to get results. The simple truth is you don’t get to change or get new results from within the comfort of your current patterning. It just doesn’t happen.
For this reason I will at times push you, challenge you, call you out and be a total pain in the backside. I will do this because I am absolutely working for your outcome and success rather than your comfort. And none of this means that fun, excitement and rewarding experiences are any less a part of the process!
Who Should NOT Contact Me
Do not contact me if your first question is “what are your fees?”
I cannot meaningfully discuss fees before we have even discussed what it is you want. As mentioned above, each programme is tailored to meet the individual needs of the the project for that client. I may not even be the right person to help you!
Do not contact me on behalf of someone else
I am often contacted by well meaning friends/family members who want me to help their loved one (friend, spouse, son, daughter etc.) . Whilst I understand this, the truth is that if that person doesn’t have the personal volition to contact me themselves, there is slim chance that I can help them in any meaningful way.
Do not contact me if you are looking for a magic wand cure
So you want to change something – be aware that if you are looking for someone else or something else to miraculously do the work for you, then that in itself is very likely a big part of the problem! There is only one person who can change you or your life, and that’s you! Sure I can help you, but it’s what you bring and what you are willing to put in that will ultimately make the difference.
(If you have seen ‘The Matrix’ I am like Morpheus and you are like Neo – you are ‘The One’!)
Do not contact me if you haven’t read the content of this page!
If you have and you would still like to have a conversation about our own personal change project, email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
Why is it ‘Multi Dimensional’
Because we are working on many levels, with many things, using many tools and techniques. The objective is to get significant changes in your experience and results, and we will work at every level to get it – cognitive, behavioural, semantic, motivational, experimental, experiential, philosophical, strategic, practical and more. Different people work with different aspects in different ways – we work with the elements that work best for you. The only common element to all programmes is that we are working pragmatically to get results – how we get them is where the multi-dimensional comes in.
If you have read all of the above and you would like to have a powerful conversation about your own personal change project and/or getting more of what you want out of life, email me at email@example.com and we’ll talk!
“Fantastic! James is a very special person.
Unlike some other coaches (and I know a lot), he has developed the knack of switching attention to the aspects of life that REALLY inspire and excite you, as a unique individual. A session that has perhaps started on a rather flat note builds into a beautiful, rhythmic tune… and finally to a glorious crescendo of energy and motivation.
Wrapped into that effortless-looking process is a huge amount of skill and experience. I unhesitatingly recommend James and his work.”
Judy Rees – X-Ray Listener and Co-Author of Clean Language: Revealing Metaphors and Opening Minds